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What do I do?
Tweet Topic Started: Apr 23 2015, 09:41 PM (1,776 Views)
+ Ssj3vegito96	Apr 23 2015, 09:41 PM Post #1
Posts: 10,327 Group: Elite Member Member #10,438 Joined: November 2, 2013 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime Dragon ball/Z/GT/S, Fullmetal Alchemist:Brotherhood, One Punch Man Favourite Manga DB/Z/S	I think this girl in my math study group likes me but I don't like her. Her the whole group and I have kind of become friends(not close friends but a little more than an acquaintance I guess) since we studied together in the beginning of the semester. I kind of felt like she liked me in the beginning but now she's trying really hard. She's beginning to make it extremely obvious. She won't leave me alone. It's actually annoying now. I don't think I ever led her on at all either. I'm trying to make it obvious I don't like her that way without being mean but as much as I try she just doesn't quit. Idk what to say anymore. When she comes up to me and it's just us two and no one else from the group we will have conversations like "Want to grab coffee with me?" I'll say that I can't. "What about tomorrow?" Again. This week is rough I don't think I can. "Oh what about next week?" maybe idk we will see. -__- Or how about "you look really great without a hat I like your hair you should stick to this. Your whole look actually...very handsome" In my head I'm thinking oh my god leave me alone Everytime it's just us and she's about to say something to me I start thinking crap ok what's my excuse this time How do I get rid of her?!?! Am I being an a***? Has anyone else been in a situation like this? Edited by Ssj3vegito96**, Apr 23 2015, 09:43 PM.
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lucrowe	Apr 23 2015, 09:50 PM Post #2
Posts: 1,149 Group: Member Member #11,578 Joined: August 5, 2014 Gender Male Favourite Anime Gantz What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Not much of a fan..	LOL! Nah you're not an a***** man. Well I'm a fan of honesty. If you come right out and say it you won't have to worry about it anymore. But I guess since she hasn't voiced her feelings that might come out as awkward.. maybe you could switch groups? Dangle a better looking man infront of her and handball it to him? Maybe you should sleep with her but be really bad at it? lol!
	"I'm not in it for the money, I'm rapping to be relevant, Spittin' for the hell of it to get me in my element and stomp whack rappers like an elephant... I'm the celebrant delegate spittin' elegant benevolence" - Lucrowe MC. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Lucrowe-MC/661247567303948?ref=bookmarks Str8 Outta Namek, A Crazy Mutha Fka Named Lucrowe


+ Pyrus	Apr 23 2015, 10:44 PM Post #3
Posts: 39,342 Group: Legend Member #5,088 Joined: August 1, 2010 Gender Not Specified Country Chile	Just tell her you aren't interested in a relationship at this time. It gives her hope and gets her off your case for the time being.
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+ Steve	Apr 23 2015, 10:59 PM Post #4
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	What about getting her drunk(not too drunk) so she might confess her feelings and then you can say you don't feel the same way. If you just assume she likes you and say it, it's possible she's overly friendly and you might sound like a weirdo or when you ask if she likes you she might get all excited thinking you like her back. Then you tell her you don't and then comes the crazy Not that she definitely would go crazy but just try not to get her hopes up and then shoot her down 'cause that's asking for all sorts of trouble. What's particularly wrong with her though? Have a think about that, one day you might regret rejecting her. Speaking from experience, if someone asked me if I'd date my girlfriend a few years ago I'd probably say "ew no she's weird as f*** and not my type or that attractive, get outta here" And here we are a few years later having been in a relationship over a year You could always try the go out with her and not be that interesting or fantastic a boyfriend route. Get together and have it leave off in a "we're better as friends" way, no harm done then really.
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Vertical	Apr 23 2015, 11:08 PM Post #5
Posts: 2,542 Group: Member Member #8,475 Joined: October 27, 2012	It's really not that hard: Just ask her. For all you know you could be wrong. Ask her if she likes you like that (noting that that's the impression you're getting from her). If she says she does, tell her you're sorry but you don't see her the same way or you aren't looking for a relationship or whatever floats your boat. If she says she doesn't, accept that she's a very friendly person accidentally sending the wrong message, or continue with your delusions and just believe she's in denial of her own feelings... or shy.. or whatever ridiculousness you need to justify it. Either way, at this point you don't know anything... COMMUNICATE.
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lucrowe	Apr 23 2015, 11:11 PM Post #6
Posts: 1,149 Group: Member Member #11,578 Joined: August 5, 2014 Gender Male Favourite Anime Gantz What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Not much of a fan..	Steve Apr 23 2015, 10:59 PM You could always try the go out with her and not be that interesting or fantastic a boyfriend route. Get together and have it leave off in a "we're better as friends" way, no harm done then really. There's plenty of harm in that. There's a phrase for that, it's called "leading people on" and that may not be the best approach. What if she develops very strong feelings for him and then after a couple of weeks he pulled that, knowing full well from the beginning it wouldn't work out? Seems a bit harsh to do to a person bro. If she does try to ask you out, the better off as friends speech would go a long way though!
	"I'm not in it for the money, I'm rapping to be relevant, Spittin' for the hell of it to get me in my element and stomp whack rappers like an elephant... I'm the celebrant delegate spittin' elegant benevolence" - Lucrowe MC. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Lucrowe-MC/661247567303948?ref=bookmarks Str8 Outta Namek, A Crazy Mutha Fka Named Lucrowe


SSJ	Apr 23 2015, 11:36 PM Post #7
Posts: 16,377 Group: General Member #8,258 Joined: September 8, 2012 Gender Female Country Sweden Favourite Anime Psycho Pass, Steins;Gate, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood Favourite Manga One Piece, Berserk, Rurouni Kenshin, Gantz	Say your mom doesn't allow you to have girlfriends yet.



+ Steve	Apr 23 2015, 11:43 PM Post #8
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	lucrowe Apr 23 2015, 11:11 PM There's plenty of harm in that. There's a phrase for that, it's called "leading people on" and that may not be the best approach. What if she develops very strong feelings for him and then after a couple of weeks he pulled that, knowing full well from the beginning it wouldn't work out? Seems a bit harsh to do to a person bro. If she does try to ask you out, the better off as friends speech would go a long way though! I don't mean intentionally be a d*** or anything just be a fairly inept boyfriend so she's not satisfied with the relationship. Like don't be romantic or interesting just be the same as a friend and then it seems like it's not really working out. 'cause it happens a lot anyway two friends can be really great together then they decide to have a more intimate relationship and it falls apart because they just don't fit together that way.
	Definitely not a succubus, fear not


~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 23 2015, 11:56 PM Post #9
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	That is such a waste of time Steve. Not only would he be wasting his own time, but he would be wasting hers, and probably hurting her as well. Manipulating and hurting other people is not a good way to solve such a simple problem that almost everyone deals with at some point. Most of these suggestions are super immature. Tell her you aren't interested in a relationship. Problem solved. Edited by Doggo Champion 2k17, Apr 23 2015, 11:56 PM.



Zoom	Apr 23 2015, 11:58 PM Post #10
Posts: 3,426 Group: Member Member #12,146 Joined: March 16, 2015 Gender Male	Tell her you're not interested in girls.



Buuberries	Apr 23 2015, 11:58 PM Post #11
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	"not interested. bye" bish bash bosh
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lucrowe	Apr 24 2015, 12:00 AM Post #12
Posts: 1,149 Group: Member Member #11,578 Joined: August 5, 2014 Gender Male Favourite Anime Gantz What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Not much of a fan..	Steve Apr 23 2015, 11:43 PM lucrowe Apr 23 2015, 11:11 PM There's plenty of harm in that. There's a phrase for that, it's called "leading people on" and that may not be the best approach. What if she develops very strong feelings for him and then after a couple of weeks he pulled that, knowing full well from the beginning it wouldn't work out? Seems a bit harsh to do to a person bro. If she does try to ask you out, the better off as friends speech would go a long way though! I don't mean intentionally be a d* or anything just be a fairly inept boyfriend so she's not satisfied with the relationship. Like don't be romantic or interesting just be the same as a friend and then it seems like it's not really working out. 'cause it happens a lot anyway two friends can be really great together then they decide to have a more intimate relationship and it falls apart because they just don't fit together that way. I know exactly what you mean bro. Its still leading her on. If she's got feelings for him and he doesn't share those feelings, how is it the best idea to go out with her anyway, fool her into thinking you're interested, and then intentionally drive the relationship into a wall? That's manipulating her feelings and using them against her. not trying to be a d* and argue the point for the sake of it, but that's terrible advice man lol! He'd be better off just not doing anything. She'll get the picture eventually. There's no need to formulate a plan like this just to get her off his back.
	"I'm not in it for the money, I'm rapping to be relevant, Spittin' for the hell of it to get me in my element and stomp whack rappers like an elephant... I'm the celebrant delegate spittin' elegant benevolence" - Lucrowe MC. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Lucrowe-MC/661247567303948?ref=bookmarks Str8 Outta Namek, A Crazy Mutha Fka Named Lucrowe


Buuberries	Apr 24 2015, 12:02 AM Post #13
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	out of curiosity, why dont you like her?
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+ QueenTD	Apr 24 2015, 12:03 AM Post #14
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 23 2015, 11:56 PM That is such a waste of time Steve. Not only would he be wasting his own time, but he would be wasting hers, and probably hurting her as well. Manipulating and hurting other people is not a good way to solve such a simple problem that almost everyone deals with at some point. Most of these suggestions are super immature. Tell her you aren't interested in a relationship. Problem solved. Here's a basic conversation to support this You: Hey girl wassup? Girl: Ask out You: Sorry but you're a nice girl but I'm not really interested in a relationship right now. Nice, easy, and simple. Though it doesn't mean she'll stop liking you. She could easily cool it down, flirt more, or seduce you. But you can't help that honestly. Just be nice and simple. Don't over think things. Telling her the truth..is good for both people. The other post while funny/weird (no offense) aren't useful in this situation. Sorry... Like Steve you shouldn't go on a date of you're not into it. That rarely if ever goes right from what I've seen. Edited by QueenTD, Apr 24 2015, 12:04 AM.
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~~StrawHatCrew~~	Apr 24 2015, 12:21 AM Post #15
Posts: 4,004 Group: Suspended Member #9,708 Joined: July 4, 2013 Favourite Anime Dragon Ball (Z), Captain Tsubasa, Naruto (Original) Favourite Manga Dragon Ball, Dr. Slump, One-Piece	hellobooboo Apr 23 2015, 11:58 PM Tell her you're not interested in girls. Yeah, because he's interested in women.



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